I have one already...
Not inviting anyone I don't know that well to stay with me. I did it and have learned from my mistake...this is something that will only happen ONCE.
I'm not sure why my overseas guest thought it was ok to stay with me for twelve days, five of which were at our beach house up the coast and then leave with just a
"thank you for having me, had a great time, bye".
No thank you gift, not even a thanks-for-the-free-accommodation card.
Am I being harsh? I think not. It's not like my guest paid for the majority of our dining out, and we ate out every night except one, where I had friends over for a bbq. I can go on, but it will just make me mad again and I feel as though I've been taken advantage of.
I will also add this...the morning of departure, guest put the sheets in the washing machine. That.was.it. Then the cab came. WHOOPEE. I was left to dry the sheets, wash the towels, tidy up the rest of the bedroom and then there was the bathroom. This really skeeved me out. I walked into the bathroom to find toothpaste on the vanity and...ready...NAIL CLIPPINGS IN THE SINK. Like guest was staying in a hotel.
WTF. I mean, I generously opened my home and this is what I got in return.
So I apologize in advance to anyone who is planning on visiting me in the future. I will be doing some due diligence before I agree to having anyone stay.
N x
That is extremely rude of your guest. They should have paid your way for all your meals. It's nice to say THANKYOU but sometimes u just got to show it too. People can be idiots. Unfortunatly that includes friends!
Posted by: Taryn | January 28, 2010 at 11:16 PM
The word "generous", is apparently not in his vocabulary...
Posted by: Nicky | January 28, 2010 at 11:28 PM
sooo rude..i know the type all too well...he is a FREELOADER...at least you have learnt a lesson (albeit a costly and messy one!) for the future...x
Posted by: TeddyBear | January 29, 2010 at 03:04 AM
omg!! The nail clippings are the end! How can anyone be that rude...what a shocker!! Emmaonafarm
Posted by: emma | February 07, 2010 at 06:24 PM
Just catching up on your blog now, Niks. Ewww...so sorry :(
Posted by: Stefanie | April 16, 2010 at 03:37 AM