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May 02, 2010


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Nicky I am glad you reminded me to come and visit so I can see where all this is at.

You have done the right thing in being open and honest with him.

Make sure you are clear about how you feel about him because you are obviously very keen on him and it would be a shame for him not to know that if you want this relationship to work out.

I guess you just have to "Wait and See". I hate saying that but just wait for it to unfold. It is going to take time for him to realise how he feels about the situation. Not to mention you as well.

I also apologise for my husband. He generally has good taste so I cannot explain the Avril Lavigne fascination! LMAO xxx

Bush Babe

Gosh Nicky - I have been checking in (on and off) for a little while now and have wondered about this EXACT scenario. What if? What if?

This guy sounds wonderful - and as you say, the conversation you had sounds incredibly difficult to have (from both sides of the coin). Perhaps you just need to leave yourself open to the idea that he might like to be involved more (when he is ready) in the process. At his pace though. I guess that's what a relationship demands - that the needs of both people are met. Did you talk at all about what he sees in his future (aside from babies)??

You absolutely had to tell him and you absolutely need to let him come to his own conclusions about where he fits in your future. Keep on being you (you know, the 'you' that he has been drawn to up til now). That's all you can do, I think.

Thinking of you, and wishing you good luck!

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